This afternoon we really did nothing. Nothing achieved or produced. No goals reached and nothing ticked off a list. Nothing that would seemingly help any of us climb any ladder, corporate, educational or otherwise. We didn’t even leave the house. We drank hot chocolate and shared some bad jokes. Over the next few hours, (and... Continue Reading →
Why my New Year resolutions are all about me
Some years ago, I took New Year resolutions very seriously. I was hardworking, ran my own business and was prone to perfectionism and people-pleasing. Every New Year, this would all inevitably gather for the perfect storm, by way of a demanding list of things that I knew would improve my life if only I could... Continue Reading →
Avoiding demands or staying authentic? Why free choice matters
“Anything we do out of fear of punishment, everybody pays for it. Anything we do for a reward, everybody pays for it. Anything we do out of shame, guilt, obligation, everybody pays for it. Anthing we do to make people like us, everybody pays for it. That isn't what we were designed for. We were... Continue Reading →
Why it’s hard to learn about things we don’t care about
There were a couple of subjects at school that I struggled with. The particular one that comes to mind is chemistry. I didn't study chemistry for long because the experience was so dire that I switched to another subject as soon as I had the chance. I still remember sitting in the classroom, staring at... Continue Reading →
How will they socialise if they don’t go to school?
Alongside maths and getting to college, socialisation is likely to be the thing that friends, family and complete strangers worry about the most when your children don't go to school. And, in a way, for many parents whose children aren't in school, friendships and socialising do pose the biggest challenge, but not, perhaps in the... Continue Reading →
But what about the future..? Unschooling and exams
How will children pass exams if they are never made to do formal study? How will they get anywhere in life if they only do things they want to do? People are frequently baffled by the idea that an unschooled child could be prepared for life or capable of taking exams if they choose, and... Continue Reading →
