Thinking of unschooling your PDA child? Congratulations and fasten your seatbelt! You may well be embarking on the most challenging, frustrating, joyful and healing journey of your life. And, if your child is not diagnosed PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), but school has been/would be a bad fit for them, this post is for you too.... Continue Reading →
Free download! Reduce conflict and boost connection in your home
Do you find yourself struggling to keep calm when things get challenging? Conflict is a normal part of any family's life and if well-managed, can be the source of much valuable learning for life. But, it can also be highly triggering to parents, particularly when your aim is to parent peacefully. Old patterns of shouting... Continue Reading →
Finding joy
Perhaps it's an odd time to be thinking about joy. Waking up today to an uncertain world and the weariness of a new lockdown, maybe it would be more appropriate to talk about resilience and coping. But I'm beginning to think that the best antidote to life's chaos is joy. Even in easier times, the... Continue Reading →
A different kind of strength
I'm writing this post from the perspective of a parent of an autistic child with PDA. That isn't to say that my child's autism/PDA defines them. It doesn't at all. But it has certainly helped to define my journey as a parent. So far, that journey has led me to a few conclusions, and I'm... Continue Reading →